Soft Light, Slow Fire: Embracing Slow Arousal for Lasting Passion

Slow is not the absence of passion—it’s the pace that lets it last. Soft Light, Slow Fire is a practical guide for couples who warm at different speeds and want deeper connection without pressure. You’ll learn how to release “brakes” like stress, distraction, or chilly rooms before pressing the gas; why attention must arrive before intensity; and how tiny words can steer pace while you stay close.